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Your friends will also laugh at you if you become pregnant - your boyfriend might laugh too. People should never have sex if they do not want to, and your letter shows that you do not want to.

Your boyfriend should not demand sex from you if you are not comfortable with it. You have no obligation to "satisfy him". Even if he says that he has sexual needs, if he really loves you, he will respect your needs. Please remind him that sex can lead to unwanted pregnancy, STDs and all sorts of misery.

Do not do what your friends say just to stop them laughing at you. If they want to have sex, let them go ahead and deal with the consequences. But if you are a good friend, you will advise them against it too.

Auntie Stella

action points

  • What can you do...
    • to help yourself do only what you want?
    • to help your friends do only what they want?
    • to help your girlfriend/boyfriend act responsibly?
  • Choose a promise...
    • 'I won't push my friends to have sex.'
    • 'I won't demand sex from anyone.'
    • 'I won't follow my friends blindly.'
    • 'I'll talk to my partner about respecting my needs.'
  • Write it somewhere to remind you.
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