I
suggest that you discuss the situation with your boyfriend.
It is very important to begin a life-long relationship
the way that you want it to continue. And the best relationships
are built on good communication and understanding.
Your
boyfriend needs to understand that a virgin is someone
who has not had sexual intercourse. A virgin can have
a broken hymen because she uses tampons or plays energetic
sports. She is still a virgin. If you have never had sex,
then you are a virgin.
The
first sexual experience is painful for some women but
not for others, no matter whether their hymens are broken
or not. Again, this is not a test of virginity.
If
your boyfriend has a problem with this, then you are going
to have a problem with him - maybe for the rest of your
life. Think carefully and act wisely.
Auntie Stella
