Do
you have any other worries about what is 'normal'?
Talk to your friends or an older person you trust.
I am sorry
that you are troubled by your experience of "wet dreams". Be comforted:
there is nothing wrong with your body and no reason to feel embarrassed
or guilty. Wet dreams are another signpost you pass on the way to
manhood. It is your body's way of getting used to the changes happening
during puberty. Wet dreams help you get rid of sperm that are ready
to leave the body. Boys aged 19 are physically ready to have sex and
the fact that you are having these dreams is because you are not sexually
active. So your fears about marriage are unfounded. When you start
having sex with a woman, you will release sperm during intercourse
and your body will have no need to get rid of excess sperm.
You
need not fear God - he made your body and what you are experiencing
is a perfectly natural function. All men experience wet dreams
at some time. Just ask an older brother or an uncle and they will
confirm this.
