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she is forcing you to have sex, it is still rape and illegal,
even though you are a boy. You must try to resist her. Perhaps
you are stronger than her, and if so you are not under any physical
threat. However the mental and emotional turmoil this is causing
is a great problem for you. The issue seems far too complex
for you to complain to the landlord himself, so I advise that
you tell your parents immediately. I feel sure that they will
either make sure they pay the rent on time or help you find
alternative accommodation.
Although
it is very difficult to prove that a man has been raped by
a woman, especially when there is no sign of violence, you
are being forced to have sex with someone against your will,
and this is a violation of your human rights. It is also potentially
dangerous to have sex with someone of obvious loose morals
- they may well be infected with an STD, or, even worse, may
have the HIV virus leading to AIDS. You must get out of this
situation as soon as possible.
Auntie Stella
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action
points
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In
your group, write a list of Teenage Rights in Sex and
Relationships.
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Make
a promise to respect these in other people, and to get
help if your rights are being abused.
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