• Work in groups of 4 to 6 people. Split your group into pairs. Choose a Question to read and its Discussion Points (the same or different questions), then write your own reply together. Get back into the group and take turns to read the questions and your replies. Discuss each one, then check Auntie Stella's replies and the Action Points.
• Working individually, write your own letter to Auntie Stella. It can be your own problem , or a friend's or relative's. Don't sign your name.
  Get into a group, fold your papers and put them into a hat/basket. Everyone takes one out and reads it aloud. The group discusses what to reply. Don't let group members laugh at anyone or be nasty about them.
• If you're working in a single-sex group, you might want to try one session with a mixed group to find out what the opposite sex thinks - but don't make anyone talk about things they don't want to. Remember to show respect for everyone's ideas too.

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