I am a 17-year-old girl, and I love my boyfriend very much.
But he always wants me to satisfy him in ways which hurt
my feelings. My girlfriends tell me that if I want to keep
him, I have to have sex with him. I'm worried that he will
sleep with other girls if I say no, so should I sleep with
him? I also fear that my girlfriends will laugh at me because
I don't want to have sex - they say everyone has sex when
they are my age.
Zandile
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talking
points
- What
do you think is Zandile's main problem
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her boyfriend?
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her own worries about her boyfriend?
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her worries about her friends?
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Should Zandile be worried about what her friends think?
- Would
you or your friends laugh at someone like Zandile?
- Should
Zandile...
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sleep with her boyfriend?
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only have sex with him if he threatens to
have sex with someone else?
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leave him because he doesn't respect her?
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Is
it true that men and boys cannot control their sexual
urges?
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