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I
am a boy in Form 3. I have a big problem, because I am very
shy with girls. Sometimes I can't even look at them. My friends
keep telling me if I smoke mbanje I can find it easier to
approach girls. All my friends have girlfriends and I feel
left out and lonely. I want a girlfriend, but I don't want
to smoke mbanje, so what can I do?
Philani
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talking
points
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Is
shyness a problem for many people?
Is
it more common in boys or in girls?
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Do
a lot of people you know only want girlfriends or boyfriends
because everyone else has them?
Is
this a good reason to have a relationship?
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Will
mbanje help Philani? Why or why not?
What
about alcohol or other drugs?
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What
advice can you give Philani...
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about overcoming his shyness?
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about making friends with girls?
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