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I am a boy in Form 3. I have a big problem, because I am very shy with girls. Sometimes I can't even look at them. My friends keep telling me if I smoke mbanje I can find it easier to approach girls. All my friends have girlfriends and I feel left out and lonely. I want a girlfriend, but I don't want to smoke mbanje, so what can I do?
 


Philani

Auntie Stella Says

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  • Is shyness a problem for many people?
    Is it more common in boys or in girls?
  • Do a lot of people you know only want girlfriends or boyfriends because everyone else has them?
    Is this a good reason to have a relationship?
  • Will mbanje help Philani? Why or why not?
    What about alcohol or other drugs?
  • What advice can you give Philani...
    • about overcoming his shyness?
    • about making friends with girls?
    • about smoking mbanje?
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