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I am a 15-year-old girl, living with my older sister and her husband. This baba mukuru is very cheerful and is respected in my family. He has always been teasing me and talking about chiramu. Recently he said that he wants me to sleep in their bedroom, and that I should do this because it is our tradition. What should I do? Is this right? I am afraid that if I say no, he will tell me to leave.

 
Patricia

Auntie Stella Says

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  • What do you think chiramu/sibale means?
    What is supposed to happen, and is this what
    actually happens?
  • Should Patricia obey her brother-in-law this time?
    What do you think he wants?
  • Do you think Patricia's sister wants Patricia to sleep with her husband?
  • Should Patricia talk to anyone about this question of hers? Who can advise her?
  • Will Patricia's brother-in-law be breaking the law if he sleeps with her? If yes, why?
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