Dear Lovemore

What a pity your mother didn’t leave a will.If she had, your life would not be so hard now. Your uncles should be ashamed for taking your family’s possessions.

At your age you should not have to deal with this situation alone. Every community includes people and organisations who look after and support young people who have no parents. Find them and ask for help. Ask the pastor for advice. Talk to people or organisations in your area, especially groups who help families affected by AIDS. Ask head teachers, nurses, traditional leaders or government district officers.

Don’t give up and don’t be shy to ask for help – all young people deserve to be cared for and have food, clothes, a place to live, education and safety.

Yes, a lot of young people are in the same situation. Talk to them. You have so much to share – your sadnesses, struggles and victories too. You can also share information and ideas about solving your problems. Plan an activity together – like starting a vegetable garden. Ask government and organisations for things you need; you are stronger as a group than by yourself.

I wish you and your brothers and sisters happier times.

Auntie Stella